Nollywood Actress and Producer, Funke Akindele Bello has revealed how she and her husband handle dispute. The actress who debuted her new movie Omo Ghetto The Saga,has disclosed this during an interview with TVC’s Your View hosts.
The actress who was on the program admitted to being the first to apologise first when she and her husband argue. The Jenifa star is married to Singer and Director,JJSkillz, and they are blessed with male twins.
“When we have disagreements,I apologise first. You know me; it is mouth that I have. I will say everything and just let it go and my anger down is very short but Abdul’s own is longer, so,he takes his time before he gets angry. Abdul doesn’t get angry easily,he takes things easy
She also disclosed that her husband is her go-to person whenever she is having issues with anyone
“And Abdul knows how to communicate better; so,if I am having issues with someone I am working with, I usually go and report the person to him. I ask him, ‘what do we do now because you know that I don’t know how to talk o.’ Then he tells me to calm down and goes to talk to the person.”
She also talks about their working relationship as they have co-produced several movies. The actress describes herself as being very creative as she comes up with the creative aspect of their production while her husband who hates producing handles the technical aspects.
She said,” my husband is very understanding and he is a very good man. For Abdul and me; I am the major producer, Abdul doesn’t produce,he dies not even like it. He is a director,he is so technical. I am very creative,he is very technical and he is very good.”
She revealed so many things about her husband and concluded that she has learnt over the years how to respect her husband no matter what.
She concluded,” You should not command people to do things; you should communicate in a subtle way. You should not be defensive,you should not nag. So,I tell my husband things I do not like and he does si the same way.”