Nigerian socialite, Pretty Mike, has advised men with cheating partners to feel free to vent out and not die in silence.
Pretty Mike stated that men are also vulnerable to being hurt but the society never allows them the opportunity to share their pain. According to him, the society tags such men as “talkative or immature”.
He stated that most times men stay in relationships where they have been abused and cheated on because of their male pride.
The social admonished men to speak out, feel free to express their pain and pour out their anger as this would reduce the long list of men dying in silence.
“Na was ooh… This out society where a man can’t express his hurt without being tagged a talkative or a immature man, how do you expect to know how many of us that have been hurt, abused and cheated on and yet stayed in a relationship? Yes I’ve seen a couple of instances where the woman cheats and the Guy stays.
The fact that our ego as men would not let us come out and cry about out Women cheating on us doesn’t mean it never happened.
Often times the ladies gain sympathy wehyn Dey share their stories with their friends, on the other hand, if a man shares such stories with his make friends he gains Mockery.
Lastly, it’s easier for women to go online and cry foul and the response would always be in their favor; the usual “men are scum” phrase scum surface,but if a man ever comes out, world people will say He talks too much, Abeg alot of guys are currently dying in silence….
Oga Instagram community is here; feel free to express your pain and pour out ur anger… You can’t be forming Lagos big boy, working super hard to provide for ur family and Dey will still be fu*cking madam up and down and u can’t say anything because people will laugh u, if you allow depression kill u Dey will cont the fu*King in ur Lekki home and send ur kids to go and stay with relatives”.
See his post below,