Before dating a guy, be friends with him – TV personality Bolanle Olukanni

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Television personality, Bolanle Olukanni has a word of advice for her female gender.

The documentary filmmaker have them a relationship advice on the need to be friends with a guy before making a decision to date him.

She opined that this would enable them get clarity into the guys character as she noted how people can go the extra mile to win your affection but wouldn’t do so if they are strictly on a friendship level, as they would reveal their true colour.

According to her, people are not fake but it is human nature to put your best foot forward, which most times isn’t their foot but borrow pose.

She averred that friend zoning a toaster would enable them know their true colors and also to know if they can hold a conversation with them after the attraction and initial butterflies is over.

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She told to them to ask themselves some questions like if they would be able to hold conversation with them, if they like their mind, are they good person and many more.

She concluded by saying these questions would prevent them from disappointments and heartache.

Y’all be friends with a guy before you decide to date them. I promise you really bet clarity into their character. People can perform to win your affection but if they are strictly on a friendship level they will show themselves for who they are”.

“Most people are not fake… It’s More like it’s human nature to put your best foot forward.
Sometimes it’s not their foot but Na borrow pose.
But if they are in your life as a friend true colors come our quicker. It makes it easier to know if you truly like them. Cause after the attraction and initial butterflies…can you hold a conversation with them? Do you like their mind? Are they a good person? Like in life. Nit just to you, but to the fabric of society. Dears these questions will save ya a lot of disappointments and heartache. Fall in love with a person not how they love you”.

 

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