Nollywood actress, Eriata Ese has disclosed the biggest mistake many people make.
According to her, many always make wrong mistake by listening to their parents choice of partners for them.
The actress vented out over how parents feel they are in the best position to choose one’s partner because of their life experience.
She noted how they neglect finding out if their choice is what you love because they are blinded by the fact that they want a spouse who would favor them.
She revealed how she hears people complain about enduring their marriage because they didn’t choose their partners. She noted how such parents always soothe them up with “don’t worry love will come along the line”, when the marriage crashes.
Noting how things has changed, she stated that such system has to change.
He further revealed that she is more angry when parents tell their kids not to marry from a particular tribe. She wondered how they could assume that a person’s tribe could influence his personality.
“The biggest mistake you can ever make in your life is letting your parents decide who you should end up with.
How parents always think they know it all because they feel they’ve been there makes me wonder if they realize they are using their clock to set our time. All they want is the best for you and what will favor the family But they neglect the part where they have to be sure if what they want for you is what you want for yourself.
I hear things like “I’m not into my marriage” and when you ask “why?”, You hear things like “my parents wanted it”. Do you know they regret that comes with ending up with someone you don’t want to be with?
Then they console you with “don’t worry love will come along the line” shey na from arik airline or Emirate airline e go pass come.
It’s 2021! That nonsense has to stop honestly. The most irritating part is when they are specific on the tribe not to bring home like say e no get tribe way no Dey do evil things.
What has tribe got to do with someone’s personality? When will our parents know that tribe doesn’t determine a good person? Even your very own town person fit still run you street”.